How to thrive not just survive the school holidays
They can feel like a blessing and a challenge all rolled into one, especially for families juggling work commitments. The thought of having your kids at home all day, every day, while trying to keep up with work is the stuff of nightmares for a lot of us. But with a little planning, flexibility, and creativity, you can make it through the break and hopefully create some lasting memories along the way.
1. Embrace a Flexible Schedule
One of the best ways to manage work and family life during the school holidays is to embrace flexibility. If your job allows for it, consider adjusting your working hours. Early mornings or late evenings can be quiet, productive times when the kids are still sleeping or winding down. Use the middle of the day to engage with your children or take them on an outing. Even a small shift in your routine can make a big difference.
2. Create a Holiday Routine for the Kids
Kids thrive on routine, and while school holidays might offer a break from their usual structure, a loose routine can help keep them entertained without you needing to micromanage every activity. Create a mix of planned activities (like a morning craft session or a visit to the park) and free time where they can engage in independent play. This will give you some pockets of uninterrupted work time.
3. Set Up Work and Play Zones
If you’re working from home, make sure you and your kids have designated spaces for work and play. Set up a “work station” where you can focus, and a “play station” filled with toys, books, or craft supplies for your children. Make it clear that when you’re in your work zone, you need focus time, and encourage your kids to use their play zone during that time. This can help create boundaries and reduce distractions.
4. Prepare Activities in Advance
Planning ahead can save your sanity. Before the holidays begin, gather a list of activities that your kids can do independently or with minimal supervision. Whether it’s a jigsaw puzzle, coloring books, or building blocks, having pre-prepared activities can keep them entertained while you finish up that Zoom meeting or answer emails.
5. Use Screen Time Wisely
Let’s be real—screen time can be a lifesaver during school holidays. While it’s obviously important to balance – strategic screen time can give you much-needed work breaks. Educational apps, kids’ documentaries, or age-appropriate movies can keep them engaged and learning while you focus on your tasks. I’d just caution to set limits and boundaries.
6. Outsource Where You Can
If you’re lucky enough to have willing Family members nearby – grandparents or older cousins can be lifesavers during this time, giving your kids a fun distraction while you focus. Just don’t hesitate to ask for help! If possible, consider arranging playdates, swapping with a fellow working mum, using formal holiday programs or hiring a babysitter for a few hours a week. Even a couple of child-free hours can help you stay on top of your work commitments and or give you a mental break you need to recharge.
7. Plan for Fun!
Remember, school holidays are also a time for your kids to unwind and have fun. So, plan special activities that you can enjoy together as a family. It doesn’t have to be elaborate—a picnic in the backyard, a movie night with popcorn, or baking together can create lasting memories. These planned breaks will also give you a mental reset from work.
8. Practice Self-Care
Finally, don’t forget about yourself. The school holidays can be demanding, but it’s essential to carve out time for your own well-being. Whether it’s a coffee break before the day begins, a workout, or a walk after dinner, taking time for yourself will help you recharge and stay patient through the chaos.
In Summary
Surviving the school holidays while balancing work and kids is no small feat, but with a blend of structure, flexibility, and a touch of creativity, it’s entirely possible. By setting boundaries, planning ahead, and prioritising both your kids’ needs and your own, you can make the most of this time—without burning out.
Enjoy the holidays! They’ll be back at school before you know it.
